Hi to all of my friends stopping by from Encouragement for Today. I’m so glad you’re here!
My friend put it like this, “Women live like a cup tipped over on its side. They give and give and pour out everything they have until there’s nothing left.”
I stared out my front door, listening to the raindrops fall and absorbed what he’d just said. All I could think was, Nailed it!
But as we talked more, another image surfaced. The same cup, but this time not empty at all. This time it’s upright and full. So full, the goodness inside breaks the rim and spills over, covering everything it touches.
“That’s what we’re going for,” my friend said. “That’s what God wants.”
On a side note, I imagine my cup in this little exercise full of coffee … But really, all too often I feel like the first cup. Empty – or at least on my last drop.
I want to love more, do more and give more, but eventually I run dry.
Then I read a verse like this one in John and wonder, What am I missing?
The one who believes in Me, as the Scripture has said, will have streams of living water flow from deep within him.” John 7:38 (HCSB)
Streams of living water … Moving, rushing out from the depths of my soul … and I don’t know whether to end that sentence with a period or a question mark. Because could that really be a statement of fact? Surely that’s reserved for only a few people, in a much slower season of life.
But that’s not what Jesus says. No, Jesus says these streams of living water flowing deep from within are available to anyone who believes in Him.
If we believe in Jesus, yet still feel like a cup tipped over on the table …
Maybe we just need to unclog the stream.
If you’re visiting from Encouragement for Today, you know my struggle to stop and fill up my gas tank. It pains me to pause. But eventually it puts me in a pickle. I find my soul tank isn’t much different. I always think I can go further only to find myself on the last drop, anxious for a moment to pull over and fill up.
In the hustle and bustle it can be hard to find these soul stops, so I want to share with you three things I’ve found that help me keep my soul tank full.
1. Look for short stops. Some days start full speed ahead and before you know it the day comes to a close and everything is a blur. One way I keep my focus on God and His plans even on the busiest days is to set aside 3-5 minutes throughout the day to literally drop to my knees and talk to God. It redirects my worry and frees me up to keep my thoughts on Him even in the midst of chaos.
2. Pay attention. So often I feel like God sends me encouragement, I just don’t stop long enough to notice it. As you set your soul on the mission to fill up and stay filled, ask God to get your attention. Then look for Him at work in the simplest ways – a text from a friend at just the right time, a song in your heart and you don’t know what made you think of it, or a giggle with your kiddo that refreshes your spirit.
3. Set limits. Pick a time your distractions begin and tell them when they end. During those hours do the phone thing and computer thing and every other thing that you pour your soul into, but when those hours tick to an end, shut it down. Determine to save time at the end of your day or beginning of your day (or better yet both!) for nothing other than soul-filling time with your Savior.
It’s important to note not all fuel is good fuel. Our souls rely on one fuel source and that is fellowship with God through His Son Jesus. Any substitute may take us a few miles further on our journey, but it will not last and could even cause damage.
I’d love for the community God has created here to be a place that fuels your soul! Subscribe to my blog in the box in the left-hand column, and I’ll send you a special gift of verses I use to fight fear and anxiety.
Let’s talk! Which one of these three ideas will you focus on this month?